Holistic Therapy for
Individuals and Couples in their 20s and 30s
in-person in the Twin Cities and available online in Minnesota and NY State.
Caroline Goan, LMFTI help people in their 20s and 30s stop living on autopilot…
and start trusting what’s actually true for them.
My Therapy Specialties
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Depth or Jungian therapy is about getting curious about what’s happening beneath the surface: the patterns, feelings, and quiet nudges that have been trying to get your attention all along. Rather than treating your anxiety, heartbreak, or restlessness as problems to fix, we listen to them as messengers with something important to say. Along with talking through your story, we might work with dreams, images, and your body’s signals, the language psyche often speaks in. Over time, you’ll learn to hear your own inner wisdom and trust it enough to act on it. It’s not about becoming someone new, but about becoming more fully yourself.
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Anxiety in your 20s and 30s often shows up as overthinking, people-pleasing, or the nagging sense that you should have it all figured out by now. Instead of trying to make it disappear, we get curious about what your anxiety is trying to tell you and where it first learned to be so loud. Over time, you’ll build a steadier, more trusting relationship with yourself, so anxiety no longer runs the show.
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Maybe you keep landing in the same relationship patterns, saying yes when you mean no, or feeling anxious every time you open a dating app. Together, we’ll name what’s happening, trace where those patterns came from, and practice new ways of showing up in love, friendship, and beyond. Over time, you’ll build relationships that feel more connected, more balanced, and more like you.
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Maybe you keep having the same fight, talking without really hearing each other, or living more like roommates than partners. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy and depth psychology, we look at the dance between you, and what’s stirring beneath the surface for each of you. Together, you’ll learn new ways to share what you feel, ask for what you need, and find your way back to each other.
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You had the power all along my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself.
— Glinda the Good Witch, The Wizard of Oz
Caroline Goan, LMFT
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Hi, I’m Caroline.
I'm a Twin Cities based therapist for people in the messy, thrilling, sometimes disorienting stretch of early adulthood some call the quarter-life. It's the season when the map you were handed stops matching the territory, and you're left wondering who you actually are underneath all of it.
I know that place well. At 25, my life looked great on paper, and I couldn't shake the feeling that there had to be more. A therapist helped me learn to actually listen to myself, and it changed everything. Now I get to hold that door open for others.
Maybe something just ended: a relationship, a job, a version of yourself you've been holding together. Maybe the ways you've been coping just aren't working anymore. I'm not here to fix you. I'm here to help you hear what's already trying to get your attention, and trust it enough to act on it. We'll go deep, we'll get a little messy, and we might talk about your dreams and Real Housewives in the same session. You steer. I'll be right there with you.
To pay attention, this is our endless and proper work
- Mary Oliver
Therapy With Me Is
Warm and open-hearted. You'll feel held, even on the hardest days.
Direct and honest. I'll say what I notice, with care, so it lands.
Deep, not prescriptive. No one-size-fits-all fixes, just real curiosity about you.
Grounded and real. Dreams and reality TV both belong in the room.
Unafraid of the dark stuff. Grief, heartbreak, and the unknown are welcome here.
Client-led. You steer, and I'll help you trust what you hear.
Starting Therapy Together
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I offer every new client a free consultation. It’s your chance to ask any questions and see what it’s like to work together.
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If you decide we’re a fit we’ll have a first intake session (50 minutes) letting us go deeper into what brings you to therapy.
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Your therapy sessions are tailored to your unique challenges, offering a supportive space to gain insight, build skills, and create change.